I Know All The Words

This post was written by my dear friend and guest blogger, Tricia Swenson.

I know all the words to the Christmas songs you are hearing right now – on the radio, in the stores, on your iPod.  I was just listening to the radio while in the car the other day (yes, I still listen to the radio, just regular, local radio, not even satellite radio) and the classic, “Jingle Bells” came on and it was so familiar, like seeing an old friend.  I took comfort in it, even smiled, alone in my car while trying to find a parking spot. I started to sing along for a little bit, but after years of high school and college cheerleading and yelling at little kids to “make a wedge” while I was a ski instructor, I have vocal nodes and can’t belt out much of anything anymore.  But I’ll whistle, hum along, and even mouth the words in church while the congregation is singing a Christmas carol because I don’t want to be left out of the action.

I know all the words and I know all the songs.  They bring me comfort, sort of like going back for homecoming or a family reunion year after year, these songs return, the same time every season (or sometimes earlier than expected, like in the fall when the leaves haven’t even fallen yet and the big box stores are enticing you to come in and do your holiday shopping).  But just like that, those songs surround us.  I don’t have a favorite; I like different songs at different times.  “I’ll Be Home for Christmas” when I am feeling sentimental, “Jingle Bell Rock” when I am feeling festive, and “Silent Night” when I am feeling reflective and spiritual.

Elementary kids singing their hearts out

I know all the words.  I have known most of them since Kindergarten, learning the more complex songs and multi-part harmonies later in Junior High and High School.  I was fortunate to grow up during a time when Christmas programs were allowed in schools, and my school put on one of the best shows within a 7 county radius.  Our small school (I had 38 in my graduating class) hosted “productions” – we had spotlights, props, and narrators in costume, multiple sections of risers, we had fully decorated Christmas trees, tons of them, and the whole school was a part of it.  These “productions” were the brainchild of our musical directors at our school, Myron and Pam Dybing.  This husband-wife team was a powerhouse of musical talent, not only in what they taught us but what they could pull off with limited resources and time.  We didn’t notice as kids, we just thought it was fun to sing those happy songs, be a part of something bigger.  As an adult, I can appreciate the time and dedication it took to put this together and wonder how they did it for so many years.  

 

Stage Band

The annual Kindred School Christmas program took up the entire gymnasium and it was packed not only with kids from grades K-12, but everyone’s parents, grandparents, neighbors, empty nesters and alumni who didn’t live too far away.  We would incorporate not only voices, but instrumentals, fun items from the percussion department would come out, and oh how I loved the magical sounds of the chimes.  Our best and brightest singers would treat us to fabulous solos.   If, coincidentally you lost your two front teeth around, say, November, you were probably picked to sing the solo in “All I Want for Christmas is My Two Front Teeth”.  When show time arrived, it was a big deal.  The last minute jitters, realizing the difference between feeling ill and just being nervous, sweaty palms.

Swing Choir

Mr. and Mrs. Dybing had to single-
handedly pull us all together as a group and one quote I remember them saying was “don’t lock your knees” – something about fainting if you do.   And to “take a deep breath”.  I remember it being a night everyone looked forward to and we all dressed in our holiday best.  Plenty of velvet and satin ribbons, the occasional Kindergartener getting distracted and turning around to talk to a little friend in the row behind her, only to reveal she had tucked her red velvet dress into her bloomers with the white lace ruffles on them.  That comic relief was sometimes needed when the gymnasium was dark except for spot lights.  The hugs, praise, and big smiles were evidence the show was a success and surrounding school districts would envy our shows. We took great pride after it was done.  It was a highlight of the year.  

I know all the words to the songs and I am so glad I do.  I owe that to the dedication and hard work of the Dybings and their dedication to this sacred holiday and the example they set to “think big” and go for perfection.  I am glad I grew up with that opportunity and to this day will smile, try to sing along a bit, and never turn the radio station when those timeless tunes come on. 

 

She's Kind of a Big Deal!

Today is a very special day for my family as it is my Grandmother's birthday!

Happy 100th Birthday!

This past weekend we celebrated Tillie Dybing's life as she joined a very special club:  The Centenarians.  That’s right, my grandmother turned 100 years old!  According to US Census 2010 data, there are approximately 55,000 US centenarians.  In a world of seven billion, I’d say she's a pretty big deal!!!

The world was a completely different place when she was born.  Think of it this way - she has lived an entire century.  So, in honor of my grandmother, let’s take a look back at what she’s experienced these past 100 years.

My children are often surprised to realize cell phones didn’t exist when I was a child… they are perplexed by the idea of a phone being attached to the wall and can’t imagine a life without a remote control for the TV.

But imagine this…Grandma has lived through six wars, the introduction of plumbing and automobiles, to the first man on the moon. She saw major advancements in medicine such as the polio vaccine, bone marrow, lung or heart transplants.

Some folks would wonder just what my Grandma thinks of all the changes that have happened since she was born. I guarantee you that she doesn't spend much time thinking about it. I think, that's one of the secrets to her longevity. My Grandma is an optimist, she’s always laughing, always smiling, and always talking. I’m not sure I’ve ever even seen her in a bad mood!

Still, my Grandma is as self-sufficient a person as you could hope to find for her age. She wouldn't have it any other way. Up until a few years ago, she was still driving around Minot, ND so she could continue to volunteer at the local hospital. But driving in North Dakota winters presents additional challenges.  There were several days she could be found pushing her battery operated snow blower down the driveway just so she could get to the hospital for her volunteer work. 

My grandmother has 1 son, 1 daughter , 4 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren: That’s 337 years of life that wouldn’t be without her.

The Dybing Family

 

So today, I raise my glass to a remarkable woman.  We will celebrate her life, happiness, and family. Tillie is a mother, grandmother, great grandmother. A friend to many, and someone with much to be proud of.  Happy 100th Birthday Grandma!

 

Mom - A Job Like No Other

From the moment my first came into the world, I knew my life had changed forever. 

I have poured well over 5000 glasses of water for my kids. Of those glasses, I have cleaned up at least 1,000 messes. I have worked on 10 science projects and had at least 300 doctor visits. I have packed 1,000 school lunches. I have driven in the car for two hours straight, all while staying within a 2 mile radius, having never actually stepped foot out of my car.

I have run covert operations to check my kids’ electronic devices. I have fallen asleep in my kids’ beds more than I fall asleep in my own.

I have done all of these things, but can’t claim that I am that special. I look around and know that all moms are doing exactly what I am doing. Whether we work outside of the home, or in, we are in this together. 

The reality is that moms are like no other species. We can multi-task. We can comfort. We can find solutions. We cry when they cry, but they never know. We smile every time we talk about our kids. We can fix their cuts with band-aids and their hurt feelings with a trip to Freeziac. We are psychic and can use our crystal balls to try to make everything all right, but know that we need to teach them how to do that on their own as well.

Moms are special.

We get to do special and amazing things. We get to enjoy our families every day, laugh every day, love every day. So on this Mother’s Day, when my kids bring me breakfast in bed, I will read my beautiful cards, I will eat my "MOM" shaped pancakes and drink my Diet Coke. I will smile wide because I know tomorrow I get to pour them another glass of water.

Moms, our cups runneth over.

Happy Mother's Day